Buying a Family Pet |
What to do when your child asks for a pet
Sooner or later, your child will probably ask for a pet. While owning a pet has many advantages such as teaching responsibility and fostering care and compassion in our children - pet owning is also an enormous responsibility with long-term obligations.
The Canadian Federation of Humane Societies is a charitable national organization representing Humane Societies and S.P.C.A.'s across Canada. The organization is dedicated to the compassion and humane treatment for all animals. Last year, it is estimated that over 300,000 dogs and cats were surrendered to animal shelters across Canada. (56% of cats and 27% of dogs surrendered are euthanized). Shelagh MacDonald is the Program Director for the Federation, she says "if more people were to spay and neuter their animals and take more time to consider the long-term commitment of pet ownership this number could be reduced considerably."
Responsible pet ownership requires careful thought and preparation on the part of the whole family; if you're thinking about adopting a pet in the near future, ask your family to think about these questions:
- Can our family afford a pet?
Even if you are given a pet free of charge, there are still many costs to consider. After the initial purchase of a pet, some cost considerations may include spaying/neutering, vaccinations, emergency medial care, pet carriers, licensing, food, kitty litter and pet toys and supplies. These costs could add up to hundreds of dollars in the first year alone. - Does our family have enough time for a pet?
Does your family schedule allow enough time for the daily feeding, grooming, affection and playtime for a pet? If you work long hours, or travel frequently, who will take care of your pet while you are away? Or if you're planning to relocate over the next couple of years, will the animal be moving with you? - Where will we be in 15-20 years?
Animals with good veterinary care are living much longer these days; in fact, some pets can live beyond twenty years. Think about where you will be in a few years, will the kids be grown and out of the house? Will you want to be committed to a pet at that point in your life? - Is my home equipped for an animal?
If you live in an apartment, first check with your landlord to find out whether or not pets are allowed in your building. If you live in a house, ensure that you have appropriate backyard space and fencing. You will also need to determine if there are any pet-laws in your area concerning leashing, scooping, licensing, etc. - Are my children ready for the responsibility of a pet?
Although most children are anxious to take on the responsibility of owning a pet, many parents can attest that a couple of weeks down the road, they lose interest, and mom and dad are left with the daily care. Make an agreement with your children that they will play an active role in the daily feeding, grooming, and exercising of the pet before consenting to the animal. It is recommended that you start off small, perhaps with a bird or Guinea pig; these animals are large enough to give affection to your child, but easier for a child to handle in terms of feeding, grooming, etc. - Are there any medical considerations?
It could be heartbreaking to both your child and pet if they had to give it up within a few weeks, so make sure that your children do not have pet allergies before making your purchase. If you suspect an allergy after the pet has been purchased, consult with your Doctor immediately to eliminate a pet allergy. You can reduce pet allergies by keeping the pet away from the bedrooms, vacuuming frequently, and purchasing an air filter. - Should I surprise my child with a pet?
Never buy an animal on impulse, or give a pet as a gift. It may be tempting to surprise the kids with a new bunny this Easter, but choosing a pet should involve the entire family, with everyone's needs considered. Consider alternative gift ideas such as giving books on pet care or a bird feeder so your children can enjoy birds without the daily care. - Does the type of animal matter?
One of the most important considerations in choosing your pet is animal temperament, size and breed. Will the animal relate well to children, is he well rounded, social, and loving? Seek advice from your local veterinarian, your local Animal Shelter, or the Free Public Library for further information and advice about personalities of various breeds of animals. Let the experienced professionals help you choose a pet that best suits your family needs.
If you would like more information on responsible pet ownership, contact The Canadian Federation of Humane Societies at 1-888-678-2347 or visit www.cfhs.ca.
