Early Adolescence (12-14 years)

Movement Towards Independence

  • Struggle with sense of identity
  • Moodiness
  • Improved abilities to use speech to express oneself
  • More likely to express feelings by action than by words
  • Close friendships gain importance
  • Less attention shown to parents, with occasional rudeness
  • Realization that parents are not perfect; identification of their faults
  • Search for new people to love in addition to parents
  • Tendency to return to childish behavior, fought off by excessive activity
  • Peer group influence interests and clothing styles

Career Interests

  • Mostly interested in present and near future
  • Greater ability to work

Sexuality

  • Girls ahead of boys
  • Same-sex friends and group activities
  • Shyness, blushing and modesty
  • Show-off qualities
  • Greater interest in privacy
  • Experimentation with body (masturbation)
  • Worries about being normal

Ethics and Self-Direction

  • Rule and limit testing
  • Occasional experimentation with cigarettes, marijuana, and alcohol
  • Capacity for abstract thought


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