Is the Internet safe for my kids?

By Karen Robbins, "Net Mom"

One of the most frequently asked questions I receive from concerned parents is whether parents should shut the Internet off to their kids. While I can understand the fear that may rule over the family computer, parents overwhelmed by the dangers of the Internet are better to open themselves up to the Internet through education instead of unplugging the computer.

The Internet provides our children with a peek into art, cultures, geographies and information that may be otherwise unavailable. This includes immediate access to the latest news, research, photos and maps. Likewise, the interactivity of the Internet offers games, virtual pets and stories which help kids to be entertained and broaden their horizons. The problem however is that others can also interact with kids online, and sometimes be exposed to inappropriate or "unsavory" information that kids would not come into contact with in the outside world.

The Internet can be safe - the key is to treat it just as you would any other destination that is desirable to your kids.

• . Learn the basics about the Internet and encourage your kids to tell you what they do online, who they want to communicate with and why. This kind of open conversation about the Internet will continue as your kids mature.
• . Use TV time, or for younger kids, game or story time as an opportunity to go online together and learn. Great educational resources exist on the Internet.
• . Look into an Internet service that is really intended for kids. AOL Canada recently launched a service called KOL (www.aolforkids.ca) which combines education, games and websites approved for kids.
• . Use tools such as timers and email controls to keep track of what your kids are doing online even when you can't sit with them.
• . Make sure to keep your computer in a family room or common area, not the child's bedroom.

By setting ground rules, using a kid-friendly Internet service working together, you and your kids can have healthy, fun and educational experiences online. Think of it as another layer of street-proofing: Cyberproofing.

If you have questions for AOL Canada's 'Net Mom', Karen Robbins, or need tips about online safety visit: www.aolforkids.ca/onlinesafety.

- News Canada